Earlier in the interview, Morgan asked the Warrens about the gun that Matthew used to take his own life, and Mrs. Warren revealed that they had known, a month before his suicide, that he had acquired the gun illegally. Mrs. Warren even revealed that Matthew tried to enlist her help in obtaining the gun:
Toward the end of the interview, Morgan revisited the subject. “The what if that springs to mind for me,” Morgan said, “if I was in your position, and thank God I’m not, if I had been, what if, knowing he’d acquired an illegal gun, you
“Absolutely,” Pastor Warren cut in as Morgan finished the question.
“No, I don’t,” Mrs. Warren said.
“I don’t think it would have made any difference in the fact that if you are determined, you’re going to figure out a way to take your life,” Pastor Warren replied.
“He was determined,” Mrs. Warren said. “Sitting here in this moment, it’s very clinical. It’s very — we can second guess all over the place. But in that moment when you have a mentally ill person who’s telling you they’re going to take their life, and it’s your son and you don’t want him to take his life, the choices — mental illness creates such horrendous choices for families.”
Without passing judgment on, or rendering an opinion about, what the Warrens said about their incredibly tough situation, Morgan probably should have shared, with his audience, the important fact that mental health professionals almost unanimously agree that, if you know someone who is threatening to commit suicide, that you take the threat seriously, and immediately seek emergency help.