Is The Gay Kiss Super Bowl Ad Controversy Starting To Unravel?
ManCrunch skeptic Mike Bawden at Brand Central Station says that the media has been a willing accomplice to the ManCrunch story and compares the willingness to accept the rejected-ad as being akin to other recent PR scams and manufactured controversies, like the Balloon Boy. Noting the role Fox News played in breaking the story, Bawden called it “a shame to see that none of the major news outlets covering this story are doing anything more than dancing to the same tune implanted into FOX News’ brain by a savvy PR flack.”
Bawden was among the first people to question whether the controversy was part of a larger hoax. He was quickly joined by Cyd Ziegler Jr. at gay sports blog OutSports, who said “I’m not buying since I smell a rat and am not rallying to the cause of some site that seemingly sprang up out of nowhere.”
CBS has largely been silent on the controversy, relying on the wording of their rejection that “creative is not within the Network’s Broadcast Standards for Super Bowl Sunday.” Early on, sources at CBS were saying off-the-record that ManCrunch was using the “tried-and-true tactic of generating free publicity by submitting a Super Bowl ad they knew was likely to be rejected and was ultimately unwilling to pay for,” according to James Hibberd at the Hollywood Reporter’s Live Feed blog.
Bawden, an ad exec for 30 years now working and blogging in Iowa, told Mediaite that the effort to generate a controversy by offering an ad CBS wouldn’t take because it did not meet even basic advertising standards was “seedy,” but he saved his main criticism for the media who ran with the story.
“No one is asking the question, ‘is it real or not?’” Bawden said. “We have to be smarter in how we cover these kinds of stories and someone should have asked much earlier on whether this ad was legitimate.”
Instead of looking into the ad and the people behind it, Bawden said the media was willing to just repeat the story over and over again, in part because the idea that CBS was being homophobic in rejecting the ad was a story that was couldn’t be passed up, even if the ad looked suspect.
Despite ManCrunch’s media blitz to gain sympathy for the CBS’ allegedly homophobic decision, it is not clear that everyone was buying the story. While the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation issued a media release denouncing CBS, it was careful not to mention ManCrunch by name or even refer directly to the ad. In another CBS smackdown two days later, GLAAD led with the most recent CBS rejection but again focused on the Focus on the Family ad controversy.
While many LGBT rights activists were quick to blame CBS, it wasn’t a universal sentiment. Adam Rogers at Change.org’s blog said “I was initially excited and thought we were back in the game, until I watched the ad: Two straight guys fake kissing while their friend freaks out. This is the ad we are supposed to fight for? This is the ad that we want 100 million people to see?” Jonathan Capehart at the Washington Post also chimed in.
Daniel Villareal at Queerty dissected the ad and concluded:
Are we so starved for representation on TV that we’ll fight for bad representation over none at all? Why should gay viewers and organizations feel outraged that such a measly crumb as theirs stays swept off the table? Make no mistake, ManCrunch’s ad is not even in the same solar system as United Church of Christ’s ad. It’s not even an advocacy ad at all because almost everything it promotes works against any positive step towards of homosexual acceptance. CBS should be commended for rejecting such a piece of crap — for its substance, not its message — and with any luck, ManCrunch.com will be dead within the year.
While it’s easy to fault CBS for its unwillingness to take ads with gay content, the ManCrunch ad is a lousy test case for that theory. It’s impossible to tell if it was the kiss, the awful production values, the obvious desire to gin-up a controversy, or the questionable finances that resulted in CBS’s rejection.
More clear is that ManCrunch was masterful in creating this controversy and the media helped out. Given what we now know about ManCrunch, it was a cynical ploy that exploited pro-gay sentiment because there is genuine concern about how gays are portrayed in the media. While ManCrunch was quick to elicit assistance from gay rights groups and activists, there are now questions about how genuine that move was and whether the gay community was just another player in the drama.
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8 comments
This underscores CBS’ wisdom in declining this add and its folly in accepting the Tebow ad. The venue is simply inappropriate for either.
Great analysis, Michael. The unfortunate thing is that using cheap tactics like these they are going to cause the movement to lose supporters, not gain them. I think an ad about finding a life partner is a far cry from an ad that promotes the down low, and a place where “many many men come out to play”.
The networks have portrayed gay relationships including displays of affection, since Will and Grace to Brothers and Sisters. So it doesn’t ring true that CBS’s motive for declining the ad was homophobic. Positive role models have done wonders for reversing negative images of the gay community. Ellen is a star! (in fact, I wish more minorites, women and African Americans, would push for more positive rolls in the media, and less stereotypical rolls that only perpetuate the stereotypes.)
This ad, in my opinion, perpetuates a negative stereotype that gay men are sex fiends and all on the downlow.
I would note that there are sites devoted to heterosexual flings and even adulterous flings. Some of these are even advertised, or have been advertised, on Greta Van Susteren’s blog. I suppose we are all in agreement that these sites ought not be advertised on television, either?
The Real Royal King says:
February 3, 2010 at 8:29 am
Really? Such as? I do agree that they should not be aired during family friendly programming, especially on a major network. Greta at 10pm on cable… i think that is a safe hour. Heck, soap operas are a walking advertisement for adulty. hahah But am curious what the ads are.
I don’t know why people need to spend money to advertise adultery. They can just buy Andrew Youngs book. haha Seriously though, yuck. Why, and why?
But, straight people aren’t fighting an uphill battle, trying to overcome inequality. If they want to advertise their adultry, they are only hurting themselves, and ensuring divorce lawyers can continue to thrive. A gay site adveritsing down low, IMHO, is hurting the entire community by perpetuating those stereotypes. Might not be fair, but I think it is true.
It’s kind of like Italian Americans getting upset about Jersey Shores, or whatever it is called. And I despise those shows like Jerry Springer or Tia Tequila/Rock of Love/brett Michaels – it is SO bad for women who fight to overcome stereotypes. And it is just plain gross.
I’ll condemn both. I see no value in bootycall.com.
Kudos to M. Triplett and Mediaite. Seemed to me there was lots of courage to run this story and including an angle on media’s alleged blind “running with stories”. Mainly launched with Triplett’s line:
“The annual kabuki dance between publicity seekers, the networks, and the media means the networks are blamed for not being open-minded while no one questions the cynical motives of potential advertisers”
I have no idea if Ad a hoax or not. Whether Mancrunch intentions sincere or not, unraveling or not. The courage and kudos comes because Mediaite just days ago ran this story:
Disgust with CBS double standard
Congrats on transparency and balance.
I just want to see the ads and make my own decisions.If they are done tastefully then I have no
problem with them. If they are standard BS ads then they should be taken out. Simple.
It’s sort of like Janet Jackson flashing a boobie. I don’t really object to it, but an audience with kids watching isn’t really the place for it.
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